Surrogacy Or Adoption? Too Many Unknowns With Adoption

Which is best surrogacy or adoption? Important surrogacy or adoption information for you.

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SURROGACY OR ADOPTION

Surrogacy or Adoption? Which Is Best?

By Delwyn Lounsbury

The debate between surrogacy or adoption is won by the benefits of surrogacy hands down in our estimation. Are you prepared for the unpredictable and life long consequences of adoption as you contemplate one of the most important decisions of your life? We don't believe in holding anything back about the many surrogacy issues. Much of what we say here people will not tell you. We respect you and give you the pros and cons of surrogacy and the for and against surrogacy arguments. We treat you with concern and support as if you were part of our family. With the surrogacy or adoption issue it's not the child. It's where it came from that is the risk. You can never be absolutely certain about what the parents of the child you may adopt were like. The typical woman who places a child for adoption is not really a woman at all. She is usually a teenage girl, unemployed, uneducated, on welfare and can't afford to take care of a child. She often does not know which of her sexual partners was the real father. There are aspects you will never know, such as what emotional and psychological damage the child may have in the long run. In nearly every case of adoption there are problems down the road that will impact your family, for better or worse.

I was stuck the other day upon seeing Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt at the Olympics on TV with their adopted daughter from Africa. She was still clutching a security blanket and sucking her thumb. Also, there was the tragedy in February of 2010 when Marie Osmond's adopted son committed suicide.

Of course, adoption is needed. And there is a waiting list of parents wanting a newborn baby. All children deserve and need loving parents and hope. You should, however, decide on what you want in your child and understand the consequences of giving up control.

One of the main benefits of surrogacy is you pick the origin of your child. The real reason you are finding a surrogate mother is so that you can have a biological blood connection to your baby. You can carry on your bloodline and family name into the future using either yours or your partner’s egg or sperm or both. Adoption gives you no connection or control. This is where the real miracle and the ever improving science like in vitro fertilization and embryo implantation give commercial surrogacy your best choices. You maintain full control over the entire process from picking the woman to become a surrogate mother to conception to birth. You have all the surrogate mother information and background about both the egg donor and sperm donation. It is usually one or both of you, the intended parents! There is significant medical testing, background check and emotional assessment done for both the mother surrogate and her husband. These safeguards are why to have a surrogate mother. Therefore, commercial surrogacy is the closest thing to a guaranty of your results and allowing you to rest assured that you know where the child you are longing for originated. Do you really want to roll the dice or stick with a proven and verifiable process?

There is another hidden reality in the surrogacy or adoption debate that no one wants to talk about. While it is cheaper than the cost of surrogate mother route in the short run, adoption can bring long term expenses. There may be adoption birth mother issues, genetic defects, psychological problems and other problems that have an ongoing financial commitment. In choosing between commercial surrogacy or adoption no one makes the decision to have a child only on monetary investment. Here is, however, your chance to choose wisely from the start leading to a predictable outcome. "You get what you pay for", truly applies to this most important step. Skimping on the quality of the origin of your child and going with a cheaper adoption could have you paying for that decision for the rest of your life.

These caring women by becoming a surrogate mother feel that they are partnering with you in giving the gift of life. The reality is that birth mothers fully expect to give the child over to you. Everyone signs a contract to that effect. Surrogacy statistics show that of all the commercial surrogacy matches done only one per cent or less had surrogacy issues. Most of those instances were years ago when there was an absence of case history on laws on surrogacy. By the way, there is no law on banning or against surrogacy here in California. In a 1993 California gestational surrogacy court case (Johnson v. Calvert) all parental rights were given to the parents of the child. This along with the fact that there is always a signed surrogacy agreement contract makes California the land of opportunity for infertile parents worldwide.

This is why we see more and more infertile couples seeking surrogate mother. In regards to the surrogacy or adoption debate we can help you with finding a surrogate mother, egg donor and the sperm donation if needed in most states of the U.S. You don't have to come to California. You help create your new baby and have control over the results. On the other hand you can try the adoption route where the origin of the mother, father and child is a mystery. Don't lose control over the outcome. The financial implications and the health and well-being of your precious child are at stake.

As to the surrogacy or adoption question, surrogacy is in control. But, control requires investment.

PS "Don't forget to have kids"

Please contact us about referral to service providers in your state or the state next to you if your state has surrogacy issues Copyright 2009 - 2010 by Delwyn Lounsbury http://www.surrogacy-surrogate-mother.com Reprint rights allowed with attribution back.

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